I just tucked Zoe in to a state of the art fort, built right in the cozy of her own room. Okay, it's not state of the art. But nonetheless any fort for children (and some adults) is a wonder not to be underestimated. She gets to sleep in there tonight. It is her reward. You see, she has had this "thing" lately. She had been coming into our room at 2,4,6 in the morning and crawling into our bed. Some days I would roll over and every living thing in our house was sleeping in our bed (me, matt, zoe, chart and the baby in my belly). I do not know what was waking her up. All I knew was that with the baby coming soon, this couldn't keep up. So I devised a plan. 10 days where she sleeps in her bed the full night until at 7a & she gets the reward of sleeping in the fort. It worked like a charm. Mom and Dad have been sleeping better, Zoe gets her rewards, and we're more content knowing her cuddling ins't a strong habit. Good stuff.
The baby is due in 12 days. I had my check up this morning. I am presently 2 cm dialated and 50% effaced. I'm trying to remember that even though things are progressing quite well, the baby will come anytime she pleases. We shall see. Meanwhile, the bags are packed, childcare is in order, back-up plans are prepared... I think we're ready.
And if the baby doesn't decide to come this week, we've got plans. Tomorrow night, we have a basketball game followed by a concert (featuring new frontman of newsboys: mike tait), Friday is the next Mile 124, Saturday Matt flies on a WWII bomber... and Sunday... we rest. :)
Catching up
A lot has happened since I've written.
This year for Christmas, we were grateful for Matt having a good chunk of time off work. We knew that a trip back to the midwest wasn't the wisest choice of our money, so instead we were able to pay off some debt, make a Christmas trip to Vegas, put some money in savings and get a few baby items. None of that would've been possible if we had taken a big trip; we tried hard to walk in wisdom. Over Matt's break from work, we had a really great time-- lots of together time. LOVE IT!!
Zoe turned 4 on January 14th. Can't believe that 4 years have already come and gone. It's unreal. She had been wanting for awhile to have some friends over for a tea party so we decided to make her party just that. Aside from requiring too much of myself to do before the party, it was a great hit. She had 4 little friends come for the tea party and several adult friends. The little girls dressed in princess outfits, played games and enjoy cupcakes and tea. It was great!
As of this blog, I am 33 weeks. Only 7 more-- give or take! We now have the nursery ready for the most part. We have a beautiful crib set & the bassinet is ready to go. She has clothes and even diapers. A few little things left to get and we're set! Before we know it, she'll be here. YAY!
Zoe wrapped up her Kindermusik class two weeks ago. It has been a true blessing to have that each week and Zoe has really grown in her musical skills. However, now that we are paying for preschool, we cannot continue on with it. On the other hand, I am helping her teacher promote her new studio which is great experience for me. I am also considering becoming a kindermusik instructor myself as it would be a great way to make some income & balance family life.
All for now. Hope all is well with you & yours.
This year for Christmas, we were grateful for Matt having a good chunk of time off work. We knew that a trip back to the midwest wasn't the wisest choice of our money, so instead we were able to pay off some debt, make a Christmas trip to Vegas, put some money in savings and get a few baby items. None of that would've been possible if we had taken a big trip; we tried hard to walk in wisdom. Over Matt's break from work, we had a really great time-- lots of together time. LOVE IT!!
Zoe turned 4 on January 14th. Can't believe that 4 years have already come and gone. It's unreal. She had been wanting for awhile to have some friends over for a tea party so we decided to make her party just that. Aside from requiring too much of myself to do before the party, it was a great hit. She had 4 little friends come for the tea party and several adult friends. The little girls dressed in princess outfits, played games and enjoy cupcakes and tea. It was great!
As of this blog, I am 33 weeks. Only 7 more-- give or take! We now have the nursery ready for the most part. We have a beautiful crib set & the bassinet is ready to go. She has clothes and even diapers. A few little things left to get and we're set! Before we know it, she'll be here. YAY!
Zoe wrapped up her Kindermusik class two weeks ago. It has been a true blessing to have that each week and Zoe has really grown in her musical skills. However, now that we are paying for preschool, we cannot continue on with it. On the other hand, I am helping her teacher promote her new studio which is great experience for me. I am also considering becoming a kindermusik instructor myself as it would be a great way to make some income & balance family life.
All for now. Hope all is well with you & yours.
Relational Giving
This year at our church, we went through a series called The Advent Conspiracy. The whole idea is to replace consumption at Christmas for compassion. They divide the Advent Conspiracy's purpose into the 4 points of Worship Fully, Spend Less, Give More, & Love All. It was really good stuff.
This last week at Life Journey we had some time to talk about the Advent Conspiracy. It was so cool to hear about the ways each family had been impacted during our time doing the Advent Conspiracy. There really are some cool stories within our church body of how Christmas has been done or at least looked at differently. For me, I have loved looking at Christmas with purposeful eyes ... and it amazed me to see how much emptiness is tied into the commercial side of Christmas. It gets to me how they try to make us believe in Santa like he's God. You just need to believe................ Bleh. The actual story of St. Nick is pretty cool and an encouragement to us all to be givers.
But this Christmas, it was the Advent Conspiracy that really impacted the way we thought about giving- both what motivated us to give and what made for meaningful giving. We were able to think of our families in particular and what might actually add to that persons life or bring them joy. And I have to say, this was really fun. It truly is better to give than to receive... and it's not just for Christmas. I love this quote that Monte shared when he spoke a few weeks back:
"It is Christmas every time you let God love others through you . . . yes, it is Christmas every time you smile at your brother/sister and offer him your hand." -- Mother Theresa
This is so true! The story that happens at Christmas is just the begining and not a separate story from the Easter story. I have decided to embrace Christmas all year round (and my decorations for just a few weeks more!). And all of this has softened the urgency to squeeze all this giving in before December 25th. (Did you know most believe that Jesus wasn't even born near December 25th? Scholars believe he was probably born in the summer.) So much of how we celebrate is cultural-- and it's so interesting to take a step back to look.
Relational Gifts I've been given in the last few months:
Someone taught me how to prune rose bushes
Someone offered to take Zoe for a random afternoon and really blessed Matt & I
Someone looking me in the eye and asked how I am
Someone encouraged me in my worship leading
Someone helped me learn what true forgiveness is
Many sent cards to let us know we were thought of
Someone invited us to celebrate Christmas with them
Someone checked on our kitty while we were away
Several came over on our invite to hang out
(I'm sure there's more, but those are the ones on the top of my head.)
Keep on giving relationally!! It really is the best giving. Thank you to all for the gifts you've given and continue giving...
This last week at Life Journey we had some time to talk about the Advent Conspiracy. It was so cool to hear about the ways each family had been impacted during our time doing the Advent Conspiracy. There really are some cool stories within our church body of how Christmas has been done or at least looked at differently. For me, I have loved looking at Christmas with purposeful eyes ... and it amazed me to see how much emptiness is tied into the commercial side of Christmas. It gets to me how they try to make us believe in Santa like he's God. You just need to believe................ Bleh. The actual story of St. Nick is pretty cool and an encouragement to us all to be givers.
But this Christmas, it was the Advent Conspiracy that really impacted the way we thought about giving- both what motivated us to give and what made for meaningful giving. We were able to think of our families in particular and what might actually add to that persons life or bring them joy. And I have to say, this was really fun. It truly is better to give than to receive... and it's not just for Christmas. I love this quote that Monte shared when he spoke a few weeks back:
"It is Christmas every time you let God love others through you . . . yes, it is Christmas every time you smile at your brother/sister and offer him your hand." -- Mother Theresa
This is so true! The story that happens at Christmas is just the begining and not a separate story from the Easter story. I have decided to embrace Christmas all year round (and my decorations for just a few weeks more!). And all of this has softened the urgency to squeeze all this giving in before December 25th. (Did you know most believe that Jesus wasn't even born near December 25th? Scholars believe he was probably born in the summer.) So much of how we celebrate is cultural-- and it's so interesting to take a step back to look.
Relational Gifts I've been given in the last few months:
Someone taught me how to prune rose bushes
Someone offered to take Zoe for a random afternoon and really blessed Matt & I
Someone looking me in the eye and asked how I am
Someone encouraged me in my worship leading
Someone helped me learn what true forgiveness is
Many sent cards to let us know we were thought of
Someone invited us to celebrate Christmas with them
Someone checked on our kitty while we were away
Several came over on our invite to hang out
(I'm sure there's more, but those are the ones on the top of my head.)
Keep on giving relationally!! It really is the best giving. Thank you to all for the gifts you've given and continue giving...
Meowing in her sleep, holding onto her favorite pasta & sleeping in a box
We've had some funny experiences with Zoe lately & I couldn't resist sharing. :)
Meowing in her sleep
Since we got our cat, Chart, in October, Zoe thinks it's really fun to pretend she's a kitty too- rain or shine. She carries on with her kitty-pretending even when we try to get her to stop, so it drives us a little bit nuts. :) The other night, we were checking in on her when we were going to bed. We covered her up good with her blanket. That's when she rolled over and MEOWED in her sleep!!!!! Our daughter is pretending she's a kitty even in her sleep!
Holding onto her favorite pasta
Yesterday I was at the grocery store and Zoe was my helper in the cart. We had gone through the pasta and baking aisles-- as well as several others. As I was making my last jaunt to grab something, I look down at Zoe who was crouched down and couldn't figure out what she was doing. "What are you doing?" She said, "I'm holding onto my favorite pasta." I saw the two bags of pasta we had picked out in the cart beside her so this didn't make sense to me: "Okay, let me see it." Sure enough, it wasn't pasta at all. It was a bag of dark chocolate chips. :) Silly girl.
Sleeping in a box
We had put Zoe to bed in her own bed last night like we usually do. But she had a great idea! When we went to check on her, we discovered that she wasn't in her bed at all. She had made a complete bed for herself in the big box on her floor that she had been playing with all day. The bed was complete: pillow and several blankets. She even slept in until 8:30a this morning-- I'm guessing the box was a little more sound proof... either that or comfy! :)
And a bonus:
Rainboots in ice cream
When my mom was here for a visit in October, we took a trip over to Baskin Robins. Zoe had one of those great ideas pop into her head: she decided she wanted her rainboots. She thoughts if she had her rainboots, she could put them on & jump in all the ice cream. Good thinking, Z!
Meowing in her sleep
Since we got our cat, Chart, in October, Zoe thinks it's really fun to pretend she's a kitty too- rain or shine. She carries on with her kitty-pretending even when we try to get her to stop, so it drives us a little bit nuts. :) The other night, we were checking in on her when we were going to bed. We covered her up good with her blanket. That's when she rolled over and MEOWED in her sleep!!!!! Our daughter is pretending she's a kitty even in her sleep!
Holding onto her favorite pasta
Yesterday I was at the grocery store and Zoe was my helper in the cart. We had gone through the pasta and baking aisles-- as well as several others. As I was making my last jaunt to grab something, I look down at Zoe who was crouched down and couldn't figure out what she was doing. "What are you doing?" She said, "I'm holding onto my favorite pasta." I saw the two bags of pasta we had picked out in the cart beside her so this didn't make sense to me: "Okay, let me see it." Sure enough, it wasn't pasta at all. It was a bag of dark chocolate chips. :) Silly girl.
Sleeping in a box
We had put Zoe to bed in her own bed last night like we usually do. But she had a great idea! When we went to check on her, we discovered that she wasn't in her bed at all. She had made a complete bed for herself in the big box on her floor that she had been playing with all day. The bed was complete: pillow and several blankets. She even slept in until 8:30a this morning-- I'm guessing the box was a little more sound proof... either that or comfy! :)
And a bonus:
Rainboots in ice cream
When my mom was here for a visit in October, we took a trip over to Baskin Robins. Zoe had one of those great ideas pop into her head: she decided she wanted her rainboots. She thoughts if she had her rainboots, she could put them on & jump in all the ice cream. Good thinking, Z!
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